Rule Number 1: Talk About Fight Club
The first rule of fighting a spiritual battle is the opposite of the First Rule of Fight Club! We need to talk about our fight with other believers. You're more powerful when you fight alongside of other believers. Deuteronomy 32:30 says one will put a thousand to flight and two will put ten thousand to flight. That's a pretty good return just for adding one to your team. Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." The bottom line is this: We need each other. "Don't talk about fight club", NO! Do talk about your fight with other brothers so that they can stand firm in the faith and help you fight the battle with you.
Rule 2: Remember the Law of Sowing and Reaping
If you're battling in an area, sow into that area. If you've got rebellious teenager problems, volunteer to help serve the teens at church. If you're battling with authority problems, volunteer to help serve your local police officers. If you're facing a financial battle, sow a financial seed where God places it on your heart! Flip the script on the enemy by delivering a blow to his schemes right where he is trying to hurt you. I was once facing a serious business battle and I began to pray for my adversary. Do you want to know what happened? A few months later, that adversary called me and asked me for a job! This may be the most powerful thing you can do when engaging in a spiritual battle. Sow a seed!
Rule 3: Clean House
You may not remember the story of Ruth, but it's a beautiful story of redemption. Ruth needed a redeemer. She needed a man to help her and her mother-in-law or they likely wouldn't have survived. Her situation was very dire after losing her husband. There was no welfare system in those days. Ruth made a plan to go and present herself to a man, in humility, to see if he would marry her. Before she went, Naomi, her mother-in-law gave her some advice. Ruth 3:3 "Therefore wash yourself and anoint yourself, put on your best garment and go down to the threshing floor; but do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking." Naomi's advice was simple: Cleanse Yourself. If you want to be close to the bride groom, be freshly cleansed. 2 Corinthians 7:1 says, "Therefore, having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. We are all on a sanctification journey. Just because you want to do the right thing doesn't mean you always do it. That's part of being human. There's abundant grace for the Christian that is prayerfully walking out his sanctification. But when you sin, it is important to ask for forgiveness from God. Many times, we're seeking a promotion, earnestly asking for healing or reconciliation of a loved-one, but our prayers are bouncing off the ceiling. Why? Let's look at what the Bible says in Isaiah 1:15-16 When you spread out your hands, I will hide My eyes from you; even though you make many prayers, I will not hear. Your hands are full of blood. Wash yourselves, make yourselves clean; put away the evil of your doings from before my eyes. Cease to do evil… Take a spiritual bath. Isaiah 52:11 (KJV) Depart ye, depart ye, go ye out from thence, touch no unclean thing; go ye out of the midst of her; be ye clean, that bear the vessels of the Lord. How do we take a spiritual bath? Ephesians 5:25 (NKJV) That He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word… When you read the Word of God, it washes you. It washes your hands, your eyes, your heart… Psalm 119:9 How can a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your Word. 1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
Confess your sins.
Read the Word of God over your situation.
Repent.
Rinse.
Repeat.
Rule 4: Ask with Pure Motives
James 4: 2-3 says, "You crave what you do not have; you kill and covet but are unable to obtain it. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask. 3And when you do ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may squander it on your pleasures." I often hear verse 2 quoted in Christian circles and prosperity teachers, but verse three is equally important. How do we weigh our motives? We align our will with that of God's. We must ask for things that are pleasing to Him to give. God loves you and is a good Father and like any good Father, He takes pleasure in your pleasure. Every parent loves to give good gifts to their children and our God is even better than the best parent! He gives gifts because He knows the future. When we ask God with pure motives, God is gracious and loving and loves to give us the gifts that will benefit us. So, be sure to ask for your gift. Then, be sure to check your motive. God knows all things. He knows what's best for us, knows our future and our past. Trust God to give good gifts. I often pray for things, but temper the prayers with these words, "But not my will, God--may Your will be done in my life."
Rule 5: The Law of Rest
We are human and designed to rest. God modeled it after Creation and then He built it into the Law of Moses. He made the laws for our benefit, not His. The Law was there because He loves us. The maker of the machine asks us to rest and therefore, we should gladly obey what He says about it. Music is made through rhythm and rhythm, by nature, has pauses. Without the pauses, we'd have just noise. The same is probably true with our lives. Without pauses, we aren't as effective. We need rest and God commanded us to rest. I don't debate about which is the true Sabbath, whether it's Saturday or Sunday or some other day for that matter. I'm not sure it matters which day you choose to set aside as holy unto the Lord, but I believe you should choose one consistent day, whatever day that is. If you're an NFL player and you play on Sundays, you probably won't be able to keep the Sabbath on Sunday. If you're a restauranteur, maybe you can close on Sunday and worship. That policy seems to have worked for Chick-Fil-A, just fine. Making a day holy just means its set apart. Do no profitable work means that you don't make money on the Sabbath. I don't think it means that you shouldn't work in your garden if that's something you truly enjoy. Pray about your Sabbath. The day was made for you, not God. Be a good steward of it and I believe that God will bless you with energy, clarity, and strength because you've chosen to honor Him. There are several scriptures about the Sabbath. Check out Psalm 92 on your own, but here's what Isaiah says about the Sabbath:
Isaiah 58:13-14
"If you keep your feet from breaking the Sabbath and from doing as you please on my holy day, if you call the Sabbath a delight and the Lord's holy day honorable, and if you honor it by not going your own way and not doing as you please or speaking idle words, then you will find your joy in the Lord, and I will cause you to ride in triumph on the heights of the land and to feast on the inheritance of your father Jacob." For the mouth of the Lord has spoken.